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Pleasure, Craving and Calm; the Magic Combination

Masturbation Month 2023 #16 – (Link to Part One) There was a pattern Cynthia wanted to try out with Frank; pleasure, craving, and calm. As her tongue played with his ass, she considered her timing. Relaxation was essential, and she didn’t

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He couldn't see what was coming next.

What He Couldn’t See, He Wouldn’t Fear

Masturbation Month 2023 #15 – (Link to Part One) Frank came out of the bathroom naked and relaxed. He stepped just into the bedroom and closed his eyes so he couldn’t see the bed. “Ma’am? May I make a request, please?”

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Chastity is not only fair, it's delightful! Asylum Locking Chastity Cage.

Turnabout is Not Only Fair, it’s Essential

Masturbation Month 2023 #14 – (Link to Part One) It was only fair that tonight was his turn, Frank thought. Technically fairness had not been part of the agreement. But after last night, he felt he deserved a reward. He cleared

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The apron that helped Frank feel better about his cage.

The Apron That Didn’t Do its Job

The apron helped! Masturbation Month 2023 #13 – (Link to Part One) Frank stepped into the kitchen and set his keys on the kitchen table. “Welcome home, Sweetheart! You’re early.” Cynthia greeted him with a smile and a quick kiss

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the key to a temporary escape from chastity between large breasts

Plans For a Temporary Escape From the Torture

Was a temporary escape possible? Masturbation Month 2023 #12 – (Link to Part One) Escape. That’s what Frank woke up the next morning thinking. Once again, he had not slept well. Erections and cage pinching kept waking him up. He

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Caged, Overwhelmed, and Unsatisfied.

Caged, Overwhelmed and Unsatisfied

Masturbation Month 2023 #11 (Link to Part One) Masturbation Month 2023 is here! In the wee hours of the morning I celebrated with my first orgasm, arrived at with the help of the Lelo Enigma. I settled in with this

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Podcast #298 features talk of the JimSupport Sex Sling

Celebrations and Inquiries – Podcast #298

Pegging Paradise Podcast #298 Articles/Information Equipment Podcast #298 contains some great stories about this journey we call pegging, from beginning anal play to the real deal. I never tire of hearing how that story unfolds, the challenges and thrills along

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Podcast #298 features talk of the JimSupport Sex Sling

A Sex Sling For Pegging that Rocks!

I have owned a JimSupport Sex Sling for about 7 years now, and I have to say it’s the best investment I’ve ever made amongst all my sexytime pegging purchases. Sex Sling, Not Sex Swing I called this my sex

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Podcast #297 CFNM Femdom

Surprise! Podcast #297 Appears!

Podcast #297 brings all kinds of good things, like putting on a show for your partner, thinking hard about the connection of bisexuality and pegging, and a deep dive (pun intended) into lube options. PLUS, I finally found a lube

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Ruby Ryder shares interview with Zach Budd about pegging and consent

Podcast #296 Interview with Zach Budd

Pegging Paradise Podcast #296 My interview with Zach Budd, and his reflections on consent, anal receptive play, and where the two meet, are an interesting listen. The journey he took that led him to take a deep dive into exactly

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big ones require a special harness. This is it! Carmen Rivera Harness harness for huge dildos.

A Harness to Hold the Big Ones!

Large toys, the really big ones, can bring so much pleasure and fun, but they are notoriously hard to fit into a regular strap-on harness. And there is something so intense, powerful, and delightfully wild about strapping on a huge

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Ruby Ryder shares black and white photo of woman pegging man in bed legs in air

Podcast #295 It’s Not Hard!

Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #295 Podcast #295 is my offering to Soft Cock Appreciation Week, the brainchild of Michelle Renee at HumanConnectionCoach.com. For too long, there has been far too much emphasis on erections, how to get them, what

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Aromatic proposition from a man wearing scent at the munch

Aromatic Proposition at the Munch

Never having received an aromatic proposition, this was a new experience for me! Let me set the stage. One of my favorite things is a public meeting of kinky people, also called a munch. What do I enjoy about munches?

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Ruby Ryder shares very large realistic shaped and colored dildo beside soda can for size comparison

Podcast #294 Lex Shares About BIG Toys

Pegging Paradise Podcast #294 My Interview with Lex, IMO an expert on longer and wider toys. With his background of product designer, engineering, artistic creativity, constant curiosity and a large dose of chemical and physical science, Lex takes us on

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