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Of Soft Cocks, Men, Erections, and Life

(I used gender binary pronouns in this piece, as it relates to society’s views about masculinity and heterosexual sex. No offense intended, as clearly there are different combinations of orientation and gender identification than the generalizations I used here.) When

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directional toy for pegging

What’s Up (or Down) With a Directional Toy?

What, precisely, is a ‘directional toy’? First, when I say ‘toy’, I mean dildos. So many dildos. Dildos, dildos, and more dildos! They come in all sizes, shapes, and colors. Some sparkle. Some shine. And some even glow. Stripes, glitter,

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Masculine Surrender

Short Take On Masculine Surrender and Virginity

Sunday 1/19 is my next Virtual Happy Hour! Register Here. A couple of letters for you today! Masculine surrender and vulnerability and so-called ‘virginity’. I do believe that there is healing potential in anal penetration for all prostate owners, but

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my bodacious tatas

My Bodacious Tatas – the Movember Reward!

Are All Tatas Bodacious? I like to think so. We are not all audacious about showing them off, but they are bodacious just the same. And never was there a better reason for showing them off than my Movember fundraiser!

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Silolis Anal Training set for pegging

How to do Effective Anal Training

I’m really excited about this new Anal Training set I found! And I want to tell you all about it. First, let’s get specific about what’s meant by ‘Anal Training’. What is Anal Training? The term is usually used by

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Initial Insertions require good foreplay!

Short Take on the Initial Insertion

Initial Insertion Short Take Jessica’s question is common for new Givers. She’s concerned about getting the toy in so the fun can begin! Initial insertion doesn’t need to be unpleasant for the receiver. For the giver, when you take the

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save the world

How Pegging Can Save the World – Take 2

This piece is written using the gender binary, because of the subject matter of masculinity, how it affects the world of pegging, and how pegging affects the world. The last piece I wrote about how pegging can save the world

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save the world

Can Pegging Save the World?

This piece is written using the gender binary, because of the subject matter of masculinity, how it affects the world of pegging, and how pegging affects the world. Well, if there is anything that can save the world, perhaps it’s

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