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This is Why I Do What I Do

Ms. Ruby, I have been interested in pegging for a long time now and love your website with all of the great information. I just recently brought the subject up with my wife. Our sex life had become dull and

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Just One Finger…

  One finger… Trails down the space between your cheeks, Stopping to rest on your twitching, puckered spot. The spot that sends you…that turns you Into a squirming, begging sensory experience… Your ass and my finger; the center of your

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Ruby Ryder shares black and white photo of her wearing a strap-on for pegging

Search Word Wildness

I often get great giggles when perusing the search terms that bring people to Pegging Paradise. You’ve heard a few before. So here is the laugh for today: “who’s the bitch now pegging” Okay…two alternative scenes immediately pop into my

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Ruby Ryder shares photo of woman with dark hair crying holding tissue

A Price is Paid

Today, you get to hear a very human side of Ruby…because there is indeed a woman behind the name…with a life. Being Ruby Ryder…writing about pegging and speaking about it – teaching classes…recently exacted it’s price in my life. The

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Ruby Ryder shares nude woman with music in ear buds

New Stuff

Website membership revamp is complete! You can now read your stories on-line from anywhere you happen to be….in bed with a fetching partner, on a tropical beach or at your local Barnes and Noble (squirming in your seat). No more

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Pro-Porn & Sex-Positive

A free public repository for Porn? Freedom Porn – a new public collaborative wiki for Porn! You can surf, you can view, you can join and you can contribute (expect to see me there). Check it out, talk about it…we

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Ruby Ryder shares photo of woman with dark hair crying holding tissue

Slutwalk Toronto

So here is what started this entire uprising…(OOooo, an uprising, an uprising!) On January 24th, 2011, a representative of the Toronto Police gave shocking insight into the Force’s view of sexual assault by stating: “women should avoid dressing like sluts

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Ruby Ryder shares example of women who love pegging

Do Women Love Pegging?

Yes, there are indeed many givers who love pegging. All givers are different and their specific reasons for enjoying strap-on sex are as many and varied as the individual givers are. Some givers enjoy pegging as another tender, sensual addition

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Ruby Ryder shares art by Daveed of woman pegging man with strap-on

Ruby’s Teaching!

Sex educator? Yeah, baby! I am now teaching classes about pegging (what else?). I taught a class in February for the WCPX (West Coast Power Exchange) in Camarillo, California (thank you, Deb). March found me teaching a class for the

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The Right Triangle

Aaron hadn’t seen his good friends Daniel and Renée for too many moons. When he finally comes for a visit, things turn out differently than he could have imagined. Aaron decides to let this experienced couple take the reins for a night of passion that rocks Aaron’s world. He’ll never be quite the same again.
Light D/s, male/male play, threesome
3300 Words

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Ruby Ryder shares purple double ended dildo used for pegging

Overheard & Unmistakable

The first touch of my tongue is always a rush for you. I lick your cock slowly from base to tip. Warm and wet, I caress it, tease it, toy with it.   Yesterday you described your ass as “willing

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