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Afterwards…

  I feel closer to a man after I’ve pegged him. I feel honored with the openness he allows me to see. It takes a strong, confident man to allow vulnerability and role reversal. His vulnerability is a gift. I

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Podcast #38

Pegging Paradise Podcast #38 ❤ More about guys in heels…and lingerie! ❤ What harness is suitable for DP with a double? Or is that even possible? ❤ Pegging music? Send in your suggestions. ❤ He’s weeding out the toxic toys from

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I Am Now a BILdr!

Thanks to everyone for all your wishes of support and encouragement! They meant a lot to me, truly. Knowing I had a contingent of well wishers who matched my enthusiasm for spreading the word about pegging was heartwarming. BIL rocked…and

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Outing Myself at the Market

I went to the gym tonight to work off some of the stress I’m feeling about talking to (hopefully) hundreds of people tomorrow about how pegging can deepen intimacy in a relationship. I won’t be talking to people who have

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This is a Must Read…

A friend of mine over at FetLIfe sent me this link to a blog post written from a male perspective about what it was like to get pegged. Highly recommended reading – articulate, descriptive and honest. So rare to hear

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Podcast #37

Pegging Paradise Podcast #37 ❤ His ass is open and his mouth is shut! ❤ He wonders how to pick a woman who is likely to be interested in pegging? Switch vs dominant vs submissive conversation ensues. ❤ Where are

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BIL Conf March 2nd 4PM!

I will be speaking at the BIL Conference in Long Beach California Saturday March 2nd at 4PM on the Main Stage!! A New Frontier in Intimacy – Strap-on Sex What happens when a man and a woman set aside taboo

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New Story – “The Armani”

  The Armani Suits can bring an added dimension to lovemaking. Bruce and Sheri know this well in their life full of startling abundance. Their favorite is the Armani. A suit with that kind of power can change your entire

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The Armani

Suits can bring an added dimension to lovemaking. Bruce and Sheri know this well in their life full of startling abundance. Their favorite is the Armani. A suit with that kind of power can change your entire day… in ways you might not anticipate. Add some spectacular lingerie in and everyone has a good time.

Established couple, CMNF, power exchange, very lite D/s
3500 words

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“Strapless”? NOT

I’d like to put all manufacturers of double-ended dildos on notice that you are failing in your product descriptions on your websites. Specifically – here’s where you are blowing it… Your products are designed for a woman to insert one

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