
I Will Never…
…and I do mean Never …align myself with a retailer, a wholesaler or a manufacturer that sells toxic toys. Never! This angers me more than I can express. In my life I have watched countless large corporations make the choice

Podcast #39
Pegging Paradise Podcast #39 ❤ Virginia loses a law – it’s a good thing. ❤ Fairfax, VA – you rock! ❤ A gentleman’s club in Europe provide some amazing entertainment for this lucky couple. I want the movie rights… ❤

Where’s the Damn Podcast?
I know…I keep asking myself that very question. Here’s a pretty picture to distract you.

Gender Role Assumptions
The one less than favorable comment I got on my BIL presentation was this: Cool talk by @Ruby_Ryder at #bil2013, though it had gender/role assumptions and stereotypes I’d prefer to see deconstructed. Excellent feedback, once I took the time to

Audio Stories Posted!!
For my “I Want it All” Members! The First Time Speechless Hard Times at the Hotel (redux) Power Play (redux) Enjoy… ♥♥♥♥♥♥

Objectifying
Do I objectify men? Absolutely. I look at the tight ass of the young man in the supermarket and wonder what it might be like to fuck him…if I could make him moan, make him come. I objectify

Afterwards…
I feel closer to a man after I’ve pegged him. I feel honored with the openness he allows me to see. It takes a strong, confident man to allow vulnerability and role reversal. His vulnerability is a gift. I

Podcast #38
Pegging Paradise Podcast #38 ❤ More about guys in heels…and lingerie! ❤ What harness is suitable for DP with a double? Or is that even possible? ❤ Pegging music? Send in your suggestions. ❤ He’s weeding out the toxic toys from

I Am Now a BILdr!
Thanks to everyone for all your wishes of support and encouragement! They meant a lot to me, truly. Knowing I had a contingent of well wishers who matched my enthusiasm for spreading the word about pegging was heartwarming. BIL rocked…and

Outing Myself at the Market
I went to the gym tonight to work off some of the stress I’m feeling about talking to (hopefully) hundreds of people tomorrow about how pegging can deepen intimacy in a relationship. I won’t be talking to people who have

Audio – Power Play
Power Play (redux) I re-recorded the story Power Play for my eager listeners. Just click the words above! Enjoy! ♥Ruby

First Story – Re-recorded!
Hard Times at the Hotel Re-Recorded with better sound quality for my “I Want it All” Members! Enjoy… ♥ Ruby