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Sex Ed Stays in Utah

I pulled quotes in the following post from an article in the Salt Lake Tribune. Here’s the whole article – thanks to the Tribune for including both sides of the issue.   Utah Governor Herbert vetoed the sex-ed bill on

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See the Gifts I Get?

  I had to take a couple of pictures and put them together…this was purchased at the Farmer’s Market in Santa Monica!! This is a perfect example of how kink is really going mainstream… Maybe I will nonchalantly put it

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New Story Posted

The Market Here’s the teaser… This Kingdom is a lusty one, with Mistresses taking pleasure from boys as they wish. Sundays at the Market is where everything comes together…in the most erotic of ways. The women are definitely in control.

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The Market

This Kingdom is a lusty one, with Mistresses taking pleasure from boys as they wish. Sundays at the Market is where everything comes together…in the most erotic of ways. The women are definitely in control. Come to the Market and see for yourself…. This is my first foray into fantasy erotica.
fantasy, bisexuality, D/s, FemDom
4600 words

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I’m Okay

One year ago today my much-loved BF told me he couldn’t date me anymore. I really like that this was not my first thought today. I like that I did not even realize it until just now – 8PM. I

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Stellar Pegging Position…

Finally!!! I have recommended this position to many many people – in fact I talk about it in every class I teach. So here’s the visual, people. This is  it. The “Chairman” position. It’s really, really…hot. Thanks to New Ryder

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Sex Worker’s Rights Day

Today is International Sex Worker’s Rights Day. In this kinky world in which we live, play and rejoice in our sexual freedoms…consider the plight of sex workers. I regularly recommend that men who are looking for a pegging experience but

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More…

Harder, deeper…you are always wanting more. Begging to be filled and fucked…thoroughly. You push back against me so hard I bruise… I discover that later. Later, sleeping next to your peaceful warmth, spooning you, I feel the bruise…and smile.  

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Fair Trade Porn?

I am looking forward to the day when porn begins to accurately represent the actual desires of the people who view it…when the performers are not subjected to things we’d rather not think about in the real world but all

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Where Did You Wear It?

Awesome new website that lets you tell the world every time you have safe sex! Did you have sex and wear a condom? Put a marker on the map where it all went down! “Where Did You Wear It?”

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Dan Savage

This is a part of Dan’s introduction to his podcast this week (#278) He was talking about conservative opposition to abortion, homosexuality and contraception. Abortion, contraception, homosexuality, it is all about – all 3 issues – are about the non-baby-making

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Yes, She’s Hot

Attention Aspiring Peggers I want to reassure you about appearances. Women who are new to pegging often worry about how they will look once they actually strap on that dildo. Once the straps are fastened down and it is snugged

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