I’m Okay
One year ago today my much-loved BF told me he couldn’t date me anymore. I really like that this was not my first thought today. I like that I did not even realize it until just now – 8PM. I
Stellar Pegging Position…
Finally!!! I have recommended this position to many many people – in fact I talk about it in every class I teach. So here’s the visual, people. This is it. The “Chairman” position. It’s really, really…hot. Thanks to New Ryder
Sex Worker’s Rights Day
Today is International Sex Worker’s Rights Day. In this kinky world in which we live, play and rejoice in our sexual freedoms…consider the plight of sex workers. I regularly recommend that men who are looking for a pegging experience but
More…
Harder, deeper…you are always wanting more. Begging to be filled and fucked…thoroughly. You push back against me so hard I bruise… I discover that later. Later, sleeping next to your peaceful warmth, spooning you, I feel the bruise…and smile.
Fair Trade Porn?
I am looking forward to the day when porn begins to accurately represent the actual desires of the people who view it…when the performers are not subjected to things we’d rather not think about in the real world but all
Where Did You Wear It?
Awesome new website that lets you tell the world every time you have safe sex! Did you have sex and wear a condom? Put a marker on the map where it all went down! “Where Did You Wear It?”
Dan Savage
This is a part of Dan’s introduction to his podcast this week (#278) He was talking about conservative opposition to abortion, homosexuality and contraception. Abortion, contraception, homosexuality, it is all about – all 3 issues – are about the non-baby-making
Yes, She’s Hot
Attention Aspiring Peggers I want to reassure you about appearances. Women who are new to pegging often worry about how they will look once they actually strap on that dildo. Once the straps are fastened down and it is snugged
Misinformation Central
This video is funny and scary and stupid and sad…all at once! And I am fairly sure it is NOT a parody, despite how it appears. Oh, Jocelyn Elders, you were so ahead of your time… And for the record
Dating Discombobulation
I was just lying in a lovely hot bath with an excellent article I printed out for some relaxing reading. The article is from the blog “Positive Juice” where a guy named Mitch writes some very thought-provoking stuff. The particular
This One…
This picture really turns my crank. Even if it’s a bit of a size queen scenario….Wow.
Tips For a Newbie
Hi Ruby, I love the contribution and changes you have brought to the site, thank you. I have been playing with my hubby’s butt for years, but I have yet to achieve the prostate orgasm. I recently have found his
