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Audio Stories Posted!!

For my “I Want it All” Members!   The First Time Speechless Hard Times at the Hotel (redux) Power Play (redux)   Enjoy… ♥♥♥♥♥♥  

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Objectifying

    Do I objectify men? Absolutely. I look at the tight ass of the young man in the supermarket and wonder what it might be like to fuck him…if I could make him moan, make him come. I objectify

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Afterwards…

  I feel closer to a man after I’ve pegged him. I feel honored with the openness he allows me to see. It takes a strong, confident man to allow vulnerability and role reversal. His vulnerability is a gift. I

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Podcast #38

Pegging Paradise Podcast #38 ❤ More about guys in heels…and lingerie! ❤ What harness is suitable for DP with a double? Or is that even possible? ❤ Pegging music? Send in your suggestions. ❤ He’s weeding out the toxic toys from

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I Am Now a BILdr!

Thanks to everyone for all your wishes of support and encouragement! They meant a lot to me, truly. Knowing I had a contingent of well wishers who matched my enthusiasm for spreading the word about pegging was heartwarming. BIL rocked…and

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Outing Myself at the Market

I went to the gym tonight to work off some of the stress I’m feeling about talking to (hopefully) hundreds of people tomorrow about how pegging can deepen intimacy in a relationship. I won’t be talking to people who have

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This is a Must Read…

A friend of mine over at FetLIfe sent me this link to a blog post written from a male perspective about what it was like to get pegged. Highly recommended reading – articulate, descriptive and honest. So rare to hear

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Podcast #37

Pegging Paradise Podcast #37 ❤ His ass is open and his mouth is shut! ❤ He wonders how to pick a woman who is likely to be interested in pegging? Switch vs dominant vs submissive conversation ensues. ❤ Where are

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BIL Conf March 2nd 4PM!

I will be speaking at the BIL Conference in Long Beach California Saturday March 2nd at 4PM on the Main Stage!! A New Frontier in Intimacy – Strap-on Sex What happens when a man and a woman set aside taboo

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New Story – “The Armani”

  The Armani Suits can bring an added dimension to lovemaking. Bruce and Sheri know this well in their life full of startling abundance. Their favorite is the Armani. A suit with that kind of power can change your entire

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